Cagedmonkey has been denied orgasm for 3 weeks now. I realized something last night as we were having a little sexy sex time. Yesterday morning was a particularly mind fucking morning. I just love tucking hubby in and whispering all kinds of crazy, dirty, naughty things in his ear while I grind on him and have an orgasm.
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First steps in orgasm control as a couple Submitted by Walesboy on Fri, The discussions in this forum, and particularly the inspiration of my friend Hotspring, have been very helpful. I don't feel we are 'there' yet, and haven't really started working intentionally on exercises. But definitely moved from where we started late last year. For a while I had been struggling with exploring reducing my own orgasm frequency, feeling drained and somewhat jaded with our sex life and wanting the sessions we had to slow down. But at the same time I would often stroke myself off to reduce tension, so I was in a very conflicted state. And for my wife, my own talk and attempts to not orgasm seemed selfish.
When he truly wants a release but is not allowed, a part of him surrenders to your authority more and more. This only occurs however when there is increased sexual tension without it resulting in his orgasm. That is why I consider teasing and denial an important part of male obedience training. Of course, when you want it, a tease session can always end up with him performing oral service. There is something special about guiding his lips to the right spot with him knowing it means no orgasm for him of course ;-O.