The context in which we will define construction will be: Your image is a representation of what you have to offer the world. Are you struggling with your image? Are you a black man? So where do you start in building your wardrobe.
In my experience, mature white women of means are generally well-educated, cultured, well-bred, and more likely to be trained in tolerance. They are more likely to be powerful people who make decisions. They also have more access to handsome, cultured, well-dressed, well-spoken, well-educated black men, as they work in the same offices, attend the same parties, have similar hobbies, like golf, tennis, and riding horses. Those are the ones they are most likely to find attractive. Have you noticed that TV these days is loaded with attractive black men and women? Those are the sorts that attract mature white women of means. A few are attracted to the stereotype of the man with the sizable member, but few realize that while there is some truth in that stereotype, it is far from universal.