No matter how long ago it happened, every guy on the planet can tell you the vivid details about how they lost their virginity. Of all the firsts you'll experience in your lifetime, your first time doing the deed truly a marks a clear before and after. One minute, you're a guy who's imagined what it would be like to penetrate a woman by way of lots of porn and sexual daydreams. And then next minute or hopefully more , you've got the experience under your belt and you're ready to start uhh, honing your craft so to speak. Do Men Prefer Virgins?
Everything You Need To Know About Losing Your Virginity
Nathan Jolly recounts the first time he lost his virginity
He insisted a condom was used, but I insisted he was tested for STIs, which he agreed to at the time. During the following days he was passive about this, then annoyed and quite rude, which made it seem like a false promise. I then found a service where tests can be ordered online, so we have both been tested and await results. I feel confused and sad that he could treat a woman this way. The thought of him with a sex worker is repulsive to me. That, together with having to take an STI test, makes me feel very turned off from sex and intimacy. Hopefully it will simply be a precautionary measure as, apart from a couple of less likely conditions, seven years would be an extremely long time for an entirely symptomless incubation.
My boyfriend lost his virginity to a sex worker, then lied about it
There were a few roadblocks, however. So, that was a lot. Why going to the movies is the worst idea Most importantly though, I secretly wanted my first time to be special and romantic, and with somebody I loved - which I knew even then I needed to keep very quiet about.