I pore over these articles, never quite trusting their advice, but still discussing them with my girlfriends ad infinitum. But is sex really about love, about connecting with your partner in some mysterious, profound way? I think the 20th century made the whole story up , and we bought it because it suited us. We went from sex-shame to sex-worship in a few heady years. And just being naked with someone is a real act of trust. Sex is about lust, about desire, about a particular physical experience that is intensely pleasurable.
We asked seven sex therapists and psychologists from around the country to share the problems people in relationships bring up most frequently in their offices. See what they had to say below. Eivaisla Images "Women who come into my office often tell me they wish they could climax the 'real' way -- through intercourse. The clitoris, however, not the vagina is the center of her sexual and pleasure nerve endings. In fact, only about percent of all women can climax during sexual intercourse and even then she needs lots of vibration, manual or oral stimulation to get her close.